Hello, dear readers. I know it’s been a while. I’ve been spending a lot of time over at my new pet project Save the Paris Café. But here I am again. And here you are. And here we all are dans la merde, as they say in French.
Today is St. Patrick’s Day, and it’s also the 8th anniversary of the day I made the offer on my little Paris apartment. That day changed my life forever, and set me on a whole new course. Ironically, today is also the first of 15 days of near total lockdown in France. Now, here I am in that same apartment, but the tone is decidedly more somber, and life is changing in a whole different way.
I’m going to do my best to write every day during this time—what it’s like to be on lockdown, how we’re coping, my thoughts and, yes, maybe sometimes fears. But mostly, I’ll write about what we’re learning about ourselves and each other as we find our way through this uncertainty and fear.
So what’s it like under lockdown? All restaurants and non-essential stores have been closed since Sunday. Starting today, our movements are strongly curtailed. We can’t go out unless we have a specific reason: work, health, shopping and other daily needs, for example. There is a form we fill out from the government site that states who we are and why we are out and about. We have to carry it with us at all times, in case we are stopped by the authorities. Otherwise, we could be fined. It’s a little—no, a lot—like living in Europe during World War II. I have scenes of Casablanca running through my head.
For now, our stores have a decent amount of stock. It’s not dire. Parisians don’t seem as obsessed about toilet paper as Americans. Most of the dairy is gone, the fresh stuff. The French aren’t big on processed foods, so this is going to be harder on them than on Americans. They also don’t know how to stock up, since shopping daily is the cultural norm here. Plus, our refrigerators and apartments are very small. Where do you put it all?
But this American started to quietly and calmly stock up last week, making daily trips to the store, avoiding the chaos I was seeing in the States. I knew this was coming. I have friends in Asia, in Italy. And, you know, I read. Why this came as a surprise to the French is beyond me. They seemed in complete denial even as Italy, our neighbor, was on total lockdown, defying President Macron’s mandates of social distancing, and on Sunday—a lovely sunny springlike day—they gathered in droves in the parks and along the banks of the Seine. The next day news of 800 new cases of the virus forced the government’s hand. And today, here we are. And more restrictions are coming for sure.
How do I know? France’s future is clear based on where Asia and Italy are. And you, my friends in America, should look to us to know your future. Don’t be like the French, blatantly ignoring the request to stay home. Don’t wait until you’re on lockdown, or until you’ve spread this thing far and wide, because you wouldn’t see the reality just across the ocean. We are you, two weeks from now.
That’s partly why I decided to blog again. So you could walk through this with me and have a sense of what it will feel like before it happens. You can plan, and learn through my experiences. And hopefully, I can make it all a little less scary. Think of me as your Sacagawea guiding you through this uncharted time. We’ll do it together.
Stay tuned tomorrow for more. Love, Lisa.
Tip for the day:
When stocking up on goods, please don’t hoard. Don’t worry, supplies will be restocked. We’re good for a while. Buy just enough for a month, in case of quarantine. And I think you all are good on toilet paper. Also, make sure you have enough salt. Don’t underestimate the power of salt and its many uses. For example, gargling with warm salt water is great for a sore throat, should you become sick. (No, it does not kill the virus.)
Stuck at home? May I suggest…
Bonjour and greetings Lisa.
Received your terrific book as an XMas gift.
Have been in contact with Patty via FB.
Adrian as well as Karenrebrudel have been sending videos via FB.
Life here in AZ has ground to a halt. Many markets often have empty shelves; library system closed down as well as the different movie theater chains. Some restaurants are offering take out service only.
Be safe and stay healthy.
You, too, Judy. I miss Arizona. Not a bad place to be “stuck.”
Thank you Lisa. X
Stay safe. Stay well.
Thanks, Lisa! I first saw you on House Hunters and have your book… loved it! Thanks for blogging about your experience during this crazy time. Praying that this will soon be a distant memory. In the meantime, may we all follow the guidelines as set out by our governments and above all, look out for our neighbors. Hugs, from Vancouver Island, BC Canada
Hmmm…that is not your frigo I hope in the illo 😄
Mine is only a bit larger admittedly. I shopped last week too finally. As someone addicted to Picard dinners I recently went cold turkey (no pun intended) and I’m so glad I did. This is a time to create in the kitchen and on paper. And to give much thought to those suffering in Italy and elsewhere. Time to appreciate what we have. Thanks for posting your thoughts Lisa❤️
Yes it is, my dear! It’s teeny weeny! My freezer is also painfully small. Stay well!
I smile at the Picard comment, as I too am addicted to their stores…where else can you get escargots, frozen, but still so delicious. I always stock our small freezer in our rented apt. (we stay for several weeks each year) with their goodies. Supposed to arrive in Paris on 5/9 for a few weeks and am keeping fingers crossed…
Thank you for the comment comparing the new pass to WWII. I immediately thought the same thing but never wrote it “out loud” because it seemed inappropriate for some reason. I’m glad I’m not the only one who saw the similarity.
Looking forward to reading your observations as this progresses.
Well it’s the last time anything like that was needed in Europe, so it’s a natural comparison. It’s also to point out that our ancestors have been through worse (like a war, rationing, quarantines, restricted travel) and the world didn’t end.
Thank you Lisa. I feel a connection to your world, envisioning holding hands across the seas. It’s helpful to have an idea of what’s coming our way through your experiences and insight. Ive started rationing our (there’s two of us) food and supplies to some degree so we don’t have to go to the grocery store so often. I cancelled my visit with my lovely daughter today (we were going to paint positive messages on stones) in order to practice social distancing. Since we just started social distancing here in the States I want to give my daughter and I two weeks apart to make sure that neither of us have any symptoms. Stay healthy and know you are not alone. Please keep blogging.
That’s so wise, Michele. If we each do our part, we can have this sorted out sooner! Stay well. Be well.